One of our greatest fears is that of being visible.
What if someone sees me? Notices me?
Yet at the same time we desperately desire is to be seen and noticed.
This polarity shows up in many areas of life: business, relationships, love, community. It hampers our success, expression of skills, talents and abilities, abundance, enjoyment and contribution to the world.
We want to be expansive, our true Self but what if someone sees me?
When you go underneath that fear what often anchors it are core beliefs and thoughts such as: People might not like me, they might reject me, laugh or make fun of me. What if I am not good enough, talented enough, not capable? What if I shine and people don’t want me and what I have to offer? What if I am too much for people to handle?
There’s more. If you have limiting beliefs about making a mistake then a subconscious strategy may be to hide, isolate, be inconspicuous so if you make a mistake no one notices.
Perhaps in childhood being seen was not a good move because then you had to do chores, were singled out for punishment or maybe you had to take on more responsibility.
Most people who hold a fear of being visible or being seen shrink and become small. Physically they may not shrink although that can happen, (hunched over shoulders, head down) but they do make their energy small, unnoticeable. They snuff out their Light and hold back. It’s a protection strategy from all of the above and much more.
While the strategy of shrinking and hiding may have worked for a while it’s now become counterproductive. During this unique time of world history we are here to expand, be grand and shine our Light brightly.
Fading into the background and holding a fear of being seen keeps us from shining our Light. It prevents us from the levels of success we desire. It slows down our progress and for many people brings them to a halt.
As a result life becomes stagnant. Disappointment, discouragement, frustration and depression may result.
Now is the time sweet being of light, to free yourself from the fear of being visible. Release yourself from the ties that bind, those limiting beliefs, patterns etc.
The time is NOW to expand into the fullness of who you be, create a juicy life and uplift the consciousness of the world.
What inside of you –what part?–what belief?–is keeping you small instead of shining brightly and being your magnificent Self?
It’s time to crawl out of that self imposed box of fear and Shine On!
~Love, Esther
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