How Do I Stop Comparing Myself With Others?

 

Have you ever compared yourself to a friend, other people, a person on the cover of a magazine?

Maybe it was a comparison of looks, body, talent, skills, abilities, family, marriage, housing, opportunities, business success or trips they were taking.

We have all done it at one time or another — comparing.

For years that’s all I did–compare. It was a major subconscious program pressed permanently on play in my mind.

Some may say that comparison is good for it pushes you to do better.

People as inspiration? YES! Comparing yourself to others….not so great. It’s two different energies.

I have found from my own personal experience and working with clients that comparing is detrimental. It leads to lack of self esteem, lack of confidence, not good enough programing, victim consciousness, giving up and for some a striving to be better with dire consequence.

If you recognize yourself as one caught up in the comparing game how do you get out?

1. Get To Know You. The real you. Not the you other people tell you that you are. Not the you that you have come to believe who you are. But who you are as a spark of creation. Your God Self.  When you know who you are, your Soul Essence, then you can look at others with eyes of appreciation rather then bitter comparison. You begin to look at yourself with new eyes. The eyes of love and self acceptance.

2. Seek the Meaning of You. Who are you? Where did you come from? Begin to be open to ideas and concepts that you are not your physical body. You are Spirit, Soul Essence with your own unique Soul Signature. Light, energy, and tone. Begin to know you. The Beauty of your energy. For there is no one like you.

3. Fill Your Body with the energy of who you be your Soul Signature and begin to radiate that out into the world. Watch what happens. Notice how your outlook on life and on yourself changes.  And as a result your whole life experience shifts.

When you connect with who you truly be your Soul Signature and embody your energetic essence, the comparing slips away. A deep appreciation for yourself and every Soul on the planet emerges and you can begin to live your life as you for you.

~Love, Esther

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